Looking without seeking

There is a classic 1970s movie starring Bruce Lee called Enter The Dragon. In it he is called by the British secret police to take down a drug kingpin. That’s all fine and dandy but the most relatable part is when a Scottish martial arts practitioner asks him “What’s your style.” to which Bruce replies “You can call it the art of fighting without fighting.” What I too that to mean is Bruce’s style is to always be prepared for a fight but to not go looking for one. I base that on martial arts teachers always saying it is to be used for self defense and the first resort of a martial arts practitioner is peace, or wisdom or something intellectual, I forget.

I realize I chose a terrible name for this blog, as the word Find infers intent seeking. While the majority(about 75%) of my recommendations are preparation for the time you are found. The other 25% is where I hate double standards and believe that women should approach men just like the other way around. Ultimately we have a lot of way to go to remove stigmas and dangers to such an undertaking so ultimately we have to for now stay in the 75% Victorian era repressive(unfortunately) area. Maybe someone will write a blog that will address how to handle this double standard safe zone.

Seeking implies desperation and desperation attracts predators. Like the crocodiles that wait by the water for the thirsty zebra or wildebeest or even a lion to stop by for a sip. The snap! Lion a la carte.

As I said in a previous posing, clubs and bars are not the right places, they are the worst, next to prison I guess. In a more recent post I posit that big cities are not ideal but that’s not a hardline statement as you can be in the right places where you will attract a more humanitarian city dweller.

Being in the right places and using discernment is the practice of looking without seeking. That is my style.